sometimes i randomly think about the nigga i was heartbroken over and just feel immense confusion. the version of me right now would never even go for him and that’s the beauty of growth
Yes it is, and it’s okay to admit. Having a whole human being to take care of, whose survival depends entirely on you, and changes your priorities is a set back to those who have ambitions outside of motherhood.
Do you guys know how expensive children are? They need money, time, attention and your emotional support? Unless you are a millionaire with nannies, an active partner and a supportive community then it’s definitely a set back.
Some of you are unaware of just how amazing you really are. The way you make people laugh, lift others up or spread some extra love..you do this even though you're struggling too and i think it makes you such a beautiful human being🤗