Strive to land yourself a career in a field you’re passionate about which also doesn’t earn you the displeasure of Allah. It’s worth every ounce of hard work and every syllable of your supplications.
The surface of a believer’s eeman is all that will be visible to you from the outside. Their actions give you a glimpse of it. Their words give you a sense of it. But they may have shared moments with Allah that would leave you envious of the belief that’s in their heart.
To simply ask yourself ‘what can I do today to bring me closer to Allah?’ is to already achieve part of that. That question alone contains remembrance, mindfulness, intention and belief.
The best form of revenge is being free from the need to seek it. Continuing on your path without dedicating further energy to who did you wrong is proof of your resilience and their insignificance.
Why are the only two options being nonchalant or obsessed with someone? Can’t you just be in love? Does it have to be either unbothered or unhinged? You won’t see either of those traits in older, life long partners who would do anything for each other.