My only dating advice. Be everything you want in a partner:
Fit, kind, smart, driven, and successful.
Don’t settle for anyone less. Get in circles where others hang out.
Them: you’re so naturally good at this
You: it’s easy, all you gotta do is do it everyday for ten years straight and spend all your free time doing nothing else.
Whenever I don’t wanna do something, I get started by telling myself I can do it slowly. But I have to start.
It’s much easier to ‘keep going’ or ‘speed up’ than it is to start.
You can get pretty far in life if you’re just willing to be disliked, disagreed with, and disapproved of.
If you do all three, you’re in the company of every person who’s done something great.
(And a bunch of degenerates)