it's easy to vilify avoidant attachment because avoidant people don't explain, not a lot is said about codependent + anxious attachment and belittling others' fears, being impatient with concerns, prioritizing being 'the one' to break down walls instead of patiently earning trust

Today is the kind of day where I finish work and thank God I don’t have children, cos there’s just no way

Men are terrified of women getting ahead. They are particularly scared that women will find out that "work" isn't the big thing they have been making it out to be to belittle the backbreaking household labor women do and that men are the actual freeloaders.

september is suicide awareness month so i’ll be making it very well known just how suicidal i am

Bureaucrat mode: - create committees for every decision - make sure every meeting has pre-meetings to build the papers/deck for the meeting - end every meeting by expanding the scope of the project - no one ever owns a decision, so make sure there's complete consensus. Create

matched my manicure to my bag, feeling accomplished.

nothing better than a delicious onion soup on a warm wednesday evening in Paris

It happened to me first — headlines portraying me as a “toxic leader” when I had to make the same, often unpopular, decisions that my male peers did without critique. For them, it’s called Founder Mode, and it’s celebrated (a proper noun! With its own merch! And trademarks

i need a bf who can eat a ton so anything i can’t finish goes to him my beautiful little trash can my baby dumpster my lovely compost bin

no one understands uzumaki like i do. i will he insufferable about my microbsession. i will make sure to put my Uzumaki Limited Deluxe Edition manga in everyone's faces too.

ces fils de pute de la sncf...

if you work 40 hrs/ week, you should be able to own a 1 bedroom apartment that's within a five minute walking distance to two good grocery stores, a bar or cafe, and a mexican restaurant that's not just some fast food chain

Being "able bodied" is temporary, you will age, you will get injured, you will get sick and you will wish you fought more for the system to protect the vulnerable.

guess what, I’m chronically online AND have a salary position at my 7:30-5 big girl corporate job. it’s called versatility look it up

i get scared like this when i get a call from a unknown caller

Complaining while getting the job done >>>>>>>>

just realized that i have to stand up for myself and be mean sometimes in order to set boundaries

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i love my boyfriend so much bro life is good im going to go cook him a nice breakfast