The obsession of wanting people to regret losing you is insane, you're not that special.

When you’ve been through a lot of stuff you realize how important respect is. And it’s not about demanding respect from everyone. It’s about not engaging with people who don’t respect you.

like a motherfucking contortionist 🥱🥱

Y’all need to start finding the value in the men who treat you well… ALL the time. Not sometimes. Not when y’all together. Not when he’s in a good mood. Not when his money is up. ALWAYSSSSS.

Mamo M. Ake everything is taught. that's why whenever someone's an asshole to me, i always think "must've been their upbringing lmao" 😂

livvy meeting friends of friends is a lost art we must bring back & i'm so srs

“If we're all saying that we want the same things, why does it feel like we keep passing each other? Why aren't we connecting? Why don't we see more examples of long-term relationships in our community if we're saying we want similar or the same thing?”

These are the questions bc the relationships are there. But in the popular imaginary, so many attach to the Noah’s Arc/Native Son™️ couple, who give us no instruction on the everyday life of love, so our worth becomes how desirable we can make our lives appear to be

Every so often I catch myself wondering or even fantasizing maybe, about all the different lives I could have lived if I’d just been able to look past my ego easier, or had more courage to take the leap of faith.

Native Son™️ couple 😭 You talking right! Beautifully curated visuals cannot be our raison d'être.

We have to remeber we share this world with Stoooopid ppl.

I graduated highschool with a 4.11 and I never even smell that in university but here I am in medical school so 🤷‍♀️I just want my future kids to try their best…whatever their best may be.

Being mean ain’t attractive. Fix your spirit.

however, I can relate to attending a private school which provided me with ample resources to succeed academically and in life.

dobri1288🏝️ Alot of private school folks didn't take advantage of it so it still comes down to the individual. I also know some folks from gov. school who did well for themselves. Sad state of affairs if who you are 30-40yrs later still depends on this. Meh.

this a nasty take man, government schools ain’t even that bad once you take out the fights and private school kids fight too

“Very Simple” then proceeds to say it had nuance? Pick one!

Michael Bennett I really want everyone to go to therapy.

QT YES!! And don’t just go to say you went! Do the work too!!!