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This, but ironically. Many cultures had robust and enduring traditions of ritualized conflict, usually verbal jousting, if not outright sanctioned brawls between commoners. *Black people (Af-Am) had the Dozens, which was essentially a casual game of insult humor. This is where

many Americans are prone to fumbling social analysis because they don't see themselves as American but instead autonomous individuals whose norms, values, biases, and outlooks are derived from within, rather than being informed by the cultural context they were raised in

Oftentimes apologies are encouraged solely to defuse the tension of conflict, for the convenience of the offending party or third parties witness to the situation, without respect or meaningful care for the roots sources of the problem. Think "zero tolerance" policies in grade

When you adopt someone's frames, you also adopt their reasons for believing them. This will almost certainly subtly influence your perspective in ways unintended. Consider: someone has a strong disposition to risk-aversion, so almost all advice they give ends up being downwind