stop sending long paragraphs & messages explaining how you feel, just don't say anything. i've learned that it doesn't matter what you say, if they don't care they just don't. and nothing you say will change that. keep your guard up. don't waste your time & energy
for me, the purest form of love is consideration. when someone thinks about how things would make u feel. pays attention to detail. holds u in regard when making decisions that could affect u. in any bond, how much they care about u can be found in how much they consider u