Still time to register for this event on 2nd Nov about a new dawn in open reporting on the family courts - FREE in the Tortoise online newsroom, with me chairing and journalists, editors, lawyers and family members.

“Integrity comes at a price, yet can never be bought”
Mama Bear, 31st October 2022.

My name is Ailsa, I am 48 years old, I am a devoted mother to 2 boys who are 13 & 9 & I will do whatever it takes to ensure they are protected from abuse.

It’s my job, I’m their Mama 💜🌈🙏🏻

The #Colorado courts have suspended a well-known custody evaluator & launched a review of the entire state-approved roster, following a @ProPublica investigation. Hannah Dreyfus

Keep reading: propublica.org/article/colora…

An angel just showed up at my door.
A CPS worker who listened, interviewed the children & believed them & me.
Maybe, just maybe, things will now change…..🌈

They are well aware that the #familycourt legal system is weaponized.

'Research shows that abusers frequently try to manipulate domestic violence victims after the relationship ends.' - #California Assembly Committee on Judiciary Assemblymember Mark Stone Chair 3.16.22 Jordan Cunningham

Professional news: I am excited to officially announce that today I start work at The Press Democrat in Santa Rosa, CA as a breaking news reporter. I can’t wait to get to know this community and see what this opportunity brings! Bay Area friends: my DMs are open for any tips or ideas.

Do you know what’s really sad?
My ex is older than me, there’s a 25 year age gap, second wife etc..
So he’s 74 & has chronic health issues.
Wouldn’t you think he’d want to make peace & live his sunset years out calmly?
Or with a 3 year DVRO in place against the mother of his kids

Coercive control is based on a solid foundation of bullshit & bullying 💜

Quote of the day,

“It is for your client to decide how much of her money she is willing to waste on legal fees...”

23rd January 2021

Just after he filed for sole custody & tried to sell all our rental properties without my knowledge & halved my allowance.

#financialabuse

He was convicted for abusing her, including strangulation. The GAL recommended shared custody w him & the court agreed. Her attny said agree. “On Jan. 24, he shot my children four times each in the face and then he turned the gun on himself,” Elliot said. journal-news.com/community/preb…

'Although “parental alienation” has no professional credibility, it still maintains huge professional incentives.' - Grant Wyeth #familycourt

grantwyeth.medium.com/the-facilitati…

This, exactly this. How do you explain to a child why their family refused to let them speak about the abuse, believed the lies & refused to even listen to them?
How do you explain why they all lied?
Because I can’t explain it myself 💜

November is #FamilyCourtAwarenessMonth

Ask us a question or report a concern…

The webpage if you need to report a concern about a barrister in the UK 💜 barstandardsboard.org.uk/ask-us-a-quest…

To all the women who have been told that they are:

too loud,
too emotional,
too ambitious,
too difficult,
too bossy,
too much,

Stereotypes have held us back for far too long.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐮𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞.

November is #FamilyCourtAwarenessMonth .

And everything I have been told by domestic abuse survivors about the family justice system being manipulated by their abuser to cause them further harm has been completely vindicated. Dr Nicola Sharp-Jeffs OBE (#ScoliosisWarrior) Victims’ Commissioner London Rights of Women

He filed for sole custody & refused to give me money for legal fees.
He filed abduction charges against me & refused to give me money for legal fees.
He filed a domestic violence restraining order against me & refused to give me money for legal fees.
I think that’s a pattern 💜