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Samantha Billingham

@SODASam_

Survivor turned advocate raising awareness of coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact | Lived experience speaker | Founder of Stronger Beginnings

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My passion is raising awareness of coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact.

I'm currently working on some new blogs which I shall share over the coming weeks.

My passion is raising awareness of coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact. I'm currently working on some new blogs which I shall share over the coming weeks. #CoerciveControl #DomesticAbuse #Awareness #blogs #educate #empower
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Domestic abuse is more than a bruise.

A perpetrator does not have to physically touch you to control or abuse you. It only takes a look, glance or stare to instill fear.

Coercive control is there at the beginning and it's there at the end.

Domestic abuse is more than a bruise. A perpetrator does not have to physically touch you to control or abuse you. It only takes a look, glance or stare to instill fear. Coercive control is there at the beginning and it's there at the end. #CoerciveControl #Awareness
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Coercive control is subtle and insidious, making it challenging for the survivor challenging to recognise. It's about establishing power and control overall someone through behaviours such as isolation, verbal threats and emotional abuse.

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'Was I being stupid? I didn't see it all, this person, what they've done to me'

'It's like growing a big pair of wings and flying '

Victoria, survivor.

A powerful documentary


LBC Channel 4
lbc.co.uk/news/parachute…

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'My lawyer said I need to prepare for a harsh sentence. Come & see me in prison, we'll talk'

I'm innocent I promise. We can still retire get that place by the beach. Will you keep visiting. Bring the kids. You're all I got.

Channel 4

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For those who experienced physical violence only were you aware of what coercive control was at the time you were in that situation?

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Coercive control and domestic abuse involves an imbalance of power with one person exerting control over the other. This makes it challenging for survivors to recognise the abuse and seek and help.

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I recently attended a Buddy Bag Foundation meeting where I had the pleasure of listening to Kathryn Walker-Stack at Staffs Pathway Project Domestic Abuse Charity talking about the work they do.

Their vision is building a future where adults & children affected by domestic & sexual abuse live in safety and free from fear.

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To everyone who reaches out to me and shares their lived experience with me, I sincerely appreciate you all for trusting me.

You are are all amazing. Keep going. Take one step at a time to get to where you want to be.

Sending you all lots of love xx

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I spoke to a professional today who said, 'Police aren't acting because there's no bruise'

Why, after 9 years since Coercive Control became a crime, are professionals still not understanding coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact?

I spoke to a professional today who said, 'Police aren't acting because there's no bruise' Why, after 9 years since Coercive Control became a crime, are professionals still not understanding coercive control, domestic abuse and its impact? #CoerciveControl #Awareness
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A powerful speach from Bridie Anderson at the event talking about how we forget to ask the individual, we tar everyone with the same brush and we think one size fits all. We should always look at the individual first and work outwards.

Employers' Initiative on Domestic Abuse

A powerful speach from @Bridie1683 at the #EIDAinsighthour event talking about how we forget to ask the individual, we tar everyone with the same brush and we think one size fits all. We should always look at the individual first and work outwards. @EIDAorg
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Listening to David Challen talking at how employers should recognise male experiences because their stories and voices remain at the heart of being seen. There are lots of barriers to men seeking support which is why it's important to raise awareness.

Employers' Initiative on Domestic Abuse

Listening to @David_Challen talking at #EIDAinsighthour how employers should recognise male experiences because their stories and voices remain at the heart of being seen. There are lots of barriers to men seeking support which is why it's important to raise awareness. @EIDAorg
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My son Ryan, who is a self-taught artist who happens to be autistic is looking for suggestions for him to create new pieces for his series 'Friendship'.

Do you have a friendship he could create?

RT's really help :-)

James O'Brien David Baddiel Eddie Marsan Rob Rinder Hairy Bikers

My son Ryan, who is a self-taught artist who happens to be autistic is looking for suggestions for him to create new pieces for his series 'Friendship'. Do you have a friendship he could create? RT's really help :-) @mrjamesob @Baddiel @eddiemarsan @RobbieRinder @HairyBikers
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