You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested.

Lmfaooo the lesson I am learning the hard way.

Fucking literally

I hate how I got bamboozled by textbook narcissism.

Idealized, loved bombed, devalued, and then discarded for a new supply.

men don’t realize that their superpower is safety. The things women will do for men they feel mentally, emotionally and physically safe with you is amazing.

Hate when somebody makes me be serious about my boundaries lmaooooo

You know a relationship is unhealthy and difficult when you tell them what they did to hurt or upset you, and they somehow turn the table on you, and you end up feeling guilty and apologizing to them for upsetting them.

choose your words wisely but whatever you do, don't lie. don't hold back your truth for the sake of keeping any peace. they want you to appease their ego after they've wronged you in the worst way. tell them how it is and remove them from your life.

People be so thirsty to get their lick back they destroy their character in the process

Ppl like this take you for granted bc some ppl simply do not know love. When love comes to them they convince themselves it isn’t real or they turn into the ppl they’re use to and use and abuse you until the love is just gone.

Act from love, not for love.

Acting for love drives it away. People can feel when your happiness hinges on their response, and they slowly back away when your expectations are too heavy. Be light. We attract when we’re hydrated with love, not searching for it in the desert.

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One thing about Aquarius placements they’ll crash the whole ship before they hold themselves accountable lol

Remember change is scary but staying the same is even scarier!

Lmaooo Tommie got her lick back

love geminis with their yapping asses

I’m tired of ppl playing with me. Disrespecting me. Fucking with me. Betraying me. I’m fed tf up

people who show true promise with their efforts and self-reflection deserve your hope. when you bestow hope upon a person who shows you repeatedly, with actions, that they can’t or that they won’t improve — that is delusion.

If I ain’t learned nothing else smh